belong agrawal. For column one, use values from my core values.

Qualities I’m looking for πŸ™‚

  • When I am with them, I feel β€œI’m home.”
  • They fill up my energy tank.
  • They match my energy.
  • I am genuinely curious about them.
  • I feel their authentic curiousity about me.
  • Our values are aligned.
  • Our interests are aligned.
  • When I am with them, I feel truly β€œseen.”
  • Talks about ideas not one another
  • Likes adventure and fun
  • Have particular creative goals and doing concrete actions to pursue them
  • Smart and interested in big and interesing ideas
  • Shows up and takes care of their friends
  • Wants to make a difference in their particular communities
  • Takes care of their health
  • Listens
  • Can talk serious and deep
  • Humorous or has a humorous side
  • Expresses themselves well
  • Has boundaries and maintains them
  • Not overly dependent on friends; can function well even if alone
  • Self-starter
  • Unconventional, nonconformist, challenges the status quo
  • Interesting and interested
  • Not dogmatic on politics and religion
  • Open-minded
  • Knows how to be with people from different economic status
  • Multipotentialite
  • Humble
  • Kind
  • Sees my worth
  • Frugal
  • Manages their finances well
  • Holds me accountable to my goals
  • Values freedom
  • Knows how to navigate our differences
  • Inspires me to grow wiser
  • Happy
  • Honest
  • Has a rich inner life
  • Likes the outdoors
  • Asks me questions

Qualities I’m not looking for πŸ™

  • Shit-talkers
  • Drama queens
  • Negative
  • Alcoholic
  • Feeling superior to everyone else
  • Lazy
  • Does not follow through on promises
  • Insensitive to my boundaries
  • Dogmatic and fundamentalistic in religiou, spiritual, and political beliefs
  • Illogical
  • Preachy
  • Sucks away my energy
  • Hurts other people
  • Bad listener

Qualities I need to embody to attract the right friends 😎

  • I want to maintain my standards but not be perfectionistic
  • I want to take the initiative to contact my friends. I don’t want to wait for them to contact me.
  • I want to take good care of myself more so I can channel my energy better.
  • I want to show up. I don’t cancel as much as possible. To prevent this, I only say yes when I really mean it.
  • I want to give gifts and be more thoughtful to my friends.
  • I want to let go of the small stuff.
  • I want to always look at the positives over the negatives.
  • I want to be more forgiving.
  • I want to radiate more positive energy when with friends.
  • I want to be more authentic and vulnerable.
  • I want to be courageous in approaching strangers who are potential parts of my community.
  • I want to be less negative and judgmental.
  • I want to be clearer about who I am, what I stand for, and what I want to create, even if where I am at this point in my life is not yet totally final.

References

Agrawal, R. (2018). Belong: Find Your People, Create Community & Live a More Connected Life. Workman Publishing.