How to live?
Define your purpose.
Define projects that get you towards your purpose.
Define actions that fulfill your projects.
Manage your actions to assure that you are prioritizing what is most important at any given time.
Allocate your capital wisely (time, energy, and material resources) towards the fulfillment of your actions and projects.
Engage in actions that produce Ginhawa directly and nurture environments where Ginhawa flourishes.
# What method to answer this?
This is art more than science. So it is more important to uncover the answer through living itself than reading.
Answering how to live is both experiential and intellectual. You read how others lived and try to infuse that into your life. But since you were already living even before you learned how to read, you have no choice but to learn living by living. And that is in fact what the bulk of this learning process is. We learn through trial and error. We have no choice. It is the nature of the geography of life itself.
The reading part only supplements the living.
We can live a life without ever reading a single word as our ancestors did many years ago. Reading is but a technology that at least presumably should make living easier. But if we are not careful, it could by itself hamper living. You have to live to live.
And then report to us what you learned if u want. So that we may be helped by ur perspective.